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In Search of my Stepkids’ Tastebuds

In Search of my Stepkids’ Tastebuds

A simple egg bhurji breaks children into Indian food without the bold slap-in-your-face flavors.
By Sarah Khanna

An ideal introduction to Indian flavors

As a child, no one ever told me that the man who would hold me close every night, the man who had a penchant for Roquefort and anchovies, the man who would end up being my beloved husband, would make me, out of all unexpected things, a stepmother – often a word of such heaviness that even I, the stepmother, would sometimes look upon it with disdain.

I must admit that I am perhaps slightly luckier than other stepmothers, having met my step-kids early enough to have them forgetful of the first time they met me. At their young ages of two and three, I would only have to worry about whether they would eat my food or not (and if they would secretly compare me to Mommy).

Cook the veggie mixture until softened but firm before adding the eggs.

There was no animosity; instead, there were finicky palates already bred on eating cake mixes, bottled fat-filled salad dressing, ketchup-moistened rice, boxed mac and cheese and an unlimited number of sugary chocolate milk cartons. By the ages of seven and eight, my stepson would refuse just about everything put on his plate and my stepdaughter was well on her way to developing a full blown eating disorder. Having them come to live with us for several months proved to be the biggest challenge thrown at me.

Occasionally stir to meld the flavors together.

I, unlike these kids, was exposed to spicy food at a young age and could not comprehend how these children had yet to discover chili and how they turned their noses at anything slightly more ethnic than McDonald’s. How was it possible that they could not yet embrace a fragrant spicy tom yum goong or a rich curry that will leave them sitting years later contemplating over the magical ingredients used in that special sauce?

I took offence that MY stepchildren were eating unimaginative boxed, canned and processed food on such a regular basis. I was also sick of making some kind of pasta with a simple enough tomato sauce.

So it was decided.

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As long as they were in our house, they would eat whatever it was that we were eating. If we were to be a family, we were to eat collectively and those who didn’t like it could call me the evil stepmother all they want. None of this separate kids’ food would be happening here.

A while after making this egg bhurji, my step-daughter began asking for it, wondering when it would make an appearance at our breakfast table again. Hurriedly, I put it together for dinner this time and left my mind to wander off to the next bit of exotica that I’d bring to the table.

Today, my stepdaughter asks for her own individual bowl of spicy seafood tom yum and my stepson has found a place in his heart for blue cheese. Magic.

I, on the other hand, am still trying to find out what was in my first childhood curry.

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Simplified Egg Bhurji

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  • Author: Sarah Khanna
  • Total Time: 10 minutes
  • Yield: 2 1x


A simple egg bhurji breaks children into Indian food without the bold slap-in-your-face flavors.


  • 1 medium onion, diced
  • 2 medium tomatoes, diced
  • 2 tablespoons of ghee or butter
  • 1 handful of frozen peas
  • 1 green chilli, sliced
  • 1 teaspoon of turmeric powder
  • 1/2 teaspoon coriander powder
  • 1/4 teaspoon garam masala
  • 1/4 cup of milk
  • 4 eggs
  • Salt and pepper to taste
  • Fresh coriander, chopped, to garnish


  1. Slice and dice your onions, chilis and tomatoes.
  2. Add your butter or ghee to a non-stick frying pan and place on medium heat.
  3. Allow the butter or ghee to melt. Don’t let the butter burn or it will discolor the eggs and change the flavor.
  4. Add the onions and tomatoes and allow them a few minutes to sweat.
  5. Add the peas and chili then the turmeric, garam masala and coriander powder.
  6. In a bowl, pour the milk into the eggs and lightly whisk.
  7. Add the egg mixture to the pan and let it sit for around 20 seconds.
  8. Stir the bhurji with a wooden spoon and let it rest for a few seconds before stirring again.
  9. Continue until the eggs are softly set then remove from the heat and garnish with fresh coriander. Serve immediately.
  • Prep Time: 5 mins
  • Cook Time: 5 mins
Serve without delay.
View Comments (5)
  • Glad to hear about your success. I’m constantly trying to challenge my kids tastebuds – not always successfully, but I’m sure they’ll grow up to thank me later. My daughters favorite food? Sushi! :)

  • Kids and their eating habits – a perpetual battle!! Glad that you are winning them over..Strangely my son doesn’t like eggs, so I got to wait a while to cook this for hime..but I’m sure a time will come!

  • Great article! ‘No separate kids’ food’ is my mantra too. The result? My daughter is an olive connoisseur and my son craves mushrooms, spinach and sushi. Yeah, they love all that ‘other’ stuff too, and there is a (small) place for it, but so long as they keep their minds open, I’m happy. I’m going to try your recipe on them!

  • This looks wonderful, can’t wait to try it. I’m struggling with the same problem with my children right now. I’m Indian and my husband was brought up on a typical non spicy American fare. Why he has become much more adventurous, as much as his stomach can handle, my little ones prefer very bland food. Oddly enough, they love Mexican and sushi too, but my Indian is a challenge I’m still working on.

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