Pamela writes the blog My Man's Belly to help women get the upper hand in the dating world. You can be a saint on the street & a sinner in the bed, put up with his friends and rock six inch stilettos like a pro. But if you can cook, you've got the entire package. If you can chew gum and walk at the same time, you can cook. After all, the best way to a man's heart is still through his stomach.